More Getting Over Tips
In Connection to from a blog I did nung may ata if i'm not mistaken. For some reason, as my friend Lea told me, I've been hanging out with girls who are currently recovering from broken hearts. Like my friend Lea, and just recently my styllist friend , buti yung isang model ko kinuwento nya on the rocks palang sila, and yung isa ko pang model friend and singer cool off sila ng bf nya..hopefully by this time ok na uli sila. Well ok na rin ako para nakakatulong din ...sabi nga thats what friends are for.. plus hopefully nakakatulong ako sa kanila sa mga payo and getting over techniques or at least naaliw naman sila just enough to get them to their next day without being sad. Tanggap ko rin na when they do get back together or find their next partner eh bihira mo na makikita like what happened to my soulmate and I guess ganon din naman when I do get into a new relationship..di na ako always there physically for my friends in need (no pun intended).
So eto na.. Ill try to recap from my old blog and add some new one's...Getting Over or Anti Lungkot Techniques. To make this work, acceptance is key , accept that you are feeling lonely or something about to make you sad isa about to happen and you WANT to fight it , thenand you must treat these techniques like a tool and use them depending on the occasion.
1. Once you have verified that there is no hope for getting back together, ACCEPTANCE is key. Accept also that hoping will just make it worst and should the first thing you lose. In the shawshank redemption morgan freeman said that "Hope is a dangerous thing, it can drive a man crazy in a place like this".
2. Start calling that person if you are still in contact with him , Dude or tsong, or lolah, or hoy..or oypst... para dahan dahan rin masanay ka na di na kayo ganon ka close.
3. The easiest, erase that persons name from your YM and cellphone. Pagpinadalan ka ng quote at joke.. burahin mo na lang, wag ka ng mag reply ng hehehe in hope na sasagot pa sya. Not unless talagang funny yung joke well dapat eh iforward mo sa akin para me pambala ako sa mga nagpapadala sa akin. Kung sunod sunod ang padala sa yo aba me meaning yan ...its either gusto nya mag renew ng communication as friends or baka maybe more!!! So test mo.. why dont you ask ?.. try sending a simple sweet text... "Pwede pasa load?" ...pag malaki pinadala nya syet promising!! pag P5 lang.. wag na no.
4. Of course , do not watch love stories or listen to love songs..kasi after a while makakarelate ka or kikiligin ka kasi after non definitely you'll feel sad..nakakainggit...dati bad trip D'Anothers lang nalungkot na ako... Of course kung me kickass lovescene eh pwede na din.. pang compensate. Syet makikita mo si Brad este Angelina..ahahay.
5. Keep Busy!!! No idle time leaves not time for the mind to wander. Kung wala ka magawa...sa bahay namin kailangan ng tagalinis..promise its very very effective in getting over heartache.. try mo!
6. If you see the persons in your workplace or nearby , you meet him/her in the corridors... I just thought of this last week... Nagka momentary relapse ako..so what I suggest is think like Ally Mcbeal, yun bang whenever some thing happens biglang nagkaka background music.. kailangan pag masasalubong mo sya you must act COOL, CALM, COLLECT, think like a hearthrob , be the Iceman or Icequeen, parang gagawin mo syang casper at dadaanan lang sya tagusana ng stare mo.. kaso mahirap so this is the key ingredient ..play a Barry White Song in your head or better yet as I told a friend.. play Ice Ice Baby .. start with the Bass dundundundugudundun tapos ice ice babeeeh yung pabulong pa..basta play mo lang sa utak mo... either matawa ka or lumakas ang confidence mo. Winner both ways kasi kahit matawa ka magisa iisipinnya sya ang pinagtatawanan mo.
7. And of course Pray, plus stay with friends, Friends will be there to make you strong , and get you through until the next one comes.
So eto na.. Ill try to recap from my old blog and add some new one's...Getting Over or Anti Lungkot Techniques. To make this work, acceptance is key , accept that you are feeling lonely or something about to make you sad isa about to happen and you WANT to fight it , thenand you must treat these techniques like a tool and use them depending on the occasion.
1. Once you have verified that there is no hope for getting back together, ACCEPTANCE is key. Accept also that hoping will just make it worst and should the first thing you lose. In the shawshank redemption morgan freeman said that "Hope is a dangerous thing, it can drive a man crazy in a place like this".
2. Start calling that person if you are still in contact with him , Dude or tsong, or lolah, or hoy..or oypst... para dahan dahan rin masanay ka na di na kayo ganon ka close.
3. The easiest, erase that persons name from your YM and cellphone. Pagpinadalan ka ng quote at joke.. burahin mo na lang, wag ka ng mag reply ng hehehe in hope na sasagot pa sya. Not unless talagang funny yung joke well dapat eh iforward mo sa akin para me pambala ako sa mga nagpapadala sa akin. Kung sunod sunod ang padala sa yo aba me meaning yan ...its either gusto nya mag renew ng communication as friends or baka maybe more!!! So test mo.. why dont you ask ?.. try sending a simple sweet text... "Pwede pasa load?" ...pag malaki pinadala nya syet promising!! pag P5 lang.. wag na no.
4. Of course , do not watch love stories or listen to love songs..kasi after a while makakarelate ka or kikiligin ka kasi after non definitely you'll feel sad..nakakainggit...dati bad trip D'Anothers lang nalungkot na ako... Of course kung me kickass lovescene eh pwede na din.. pang compensate. Syet makikita mo si Brad este Angelina..ahahay.
5. Keep Busy!!! No idle time leaves not time for the mind to wander. Kung wala ka magawa...sa bahay namin kailangan ng tagalinis..promise its very very effective in getting over heartache.. try mo!
6. If you see the persons in your workplace or nearby , you meet him/her in the corridors... I just thought of this last week... Nagka momentary relapse ako..so what I suggest is think like Ally Mcbeal, yun bang whenever some thing happens biglang nagkaka background music.. kailangan pag masasalubong mo sya you must act COOL, CALM, COLLECT, think like a hearthrob , be the Iceman or Icequeen, parang gagawin mo syang casper at dadaanan lang sya tagusana ng stare mo.. kaso mahirap so this is the key ingredient ..play a Barry White Song in your head or better yet as I told a friend.. play Ice Ice Baby .. start with the Bass dundundundugudundun tapos ice ice babeeeh yung pabulong pa..basta play mo lang sa utak mo... either matawa ka or lumakas ang confidence mo. Winner both ways kasi kahit matawa ka magisa iisipinnya sya ang pinagtatawanan mo.
7. And of course Pray, plus stay with friends, Friends will be there to make you strong , and get you through until the next one comes.
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